“There’s only one rule that I know of, babies—God damn it, you’ve got to be kind.” ~ Kurt Vonnegut
This song was written in response to several events in summer 2016, including Emily Doe's statement to her rapist, the shooting at Pulse nightclub in Orlando and the Brexit vote.
It was recorded on 23 October 2018 by a group of like-minded musicians who came together to learn and arrange the song in a single day at SPARK:York community hub.
lyrics
This isn’t OK
Feels like the end of days has just begun
Wake up in a mess, in a state of undress
With your body telling you what he’s done
And the boy who’d be king's quick to say it's not him,
But the drink and the culture he lives in
So he drags you through hell, pushes it to a trial
Even when he's convicted won't give in
How can he be let free if he still can't conceive
That it isn't just one life he's ruined?
His damage is concrete: stripped of titles, degrees
But yours is internal and unseen
This isn't OK
Feels like the end of days has just begun
Invading a space that's supposed to be safe
While brandishing your gun
And the man who’d be king’s quick to call it a win
For the terror that's spreading like wildfire
And if he made the call he would build a big wall
And keep everyone else on the outside
But you can't take this from us, we will love who we love
No, it isn't about “us” against “them”
And who are you to judge? If you’re not spreading love
Then you are part of the problem
SO GO AHEAD
Block up your borders until it's all over, we’ll hope that whoever survives
Has left hatred and racism, queerphobia, sexism
There in the bloodbath behind
And has learned to be kind
Cause, God Damn It, you've got to be kind
And as for us are we any better when things do not go our way
Do we let the scaremongering build up our barriers, give in to anger and pain?
Or do we stand and fight it, let love unite us when fear tries to tell us it’s won?
Don't payback, pay it forward, stop blaming our mothers, no, we should be teaching our sons
That you've got to be kind
Dammit, children, you've got to be kind
credits
from From the Ground,
released April 5, 2019
The Vonnegut Ensemble is:
Emily Rowan - ukulele, vocals
Simon Bolley - drums, glockenspiel, vocals
Colin Cutler - banjo, harmonica, vocals
Ella Field - flute, vocals
Victoria Hatt - violin, vocals
Emily Howell - trumpet, vocals
Dave Lynch - cajon, percussion
Ewan Margrave - double bass
Murphy McCaleb - bass trombone, accordion
Jaz Millar - bazouki, vocals
Alice Nicholls - cello, vocals
Stuart Priest - violin
Emily Rowan is a singer, piano basher, uke toter and glitter addict. Frances Bolley is a singer-songwriter who plays drums
like the lead guitarist she is. Together they make music that has been described as "beautifully strange", "ecstatic melancholy" and "an emotional candy bar"....more
Laura is a one-woman band using loop pedal to make wonderfully captivating music. Emily saw her at a house gig outside York and it was love at first listen. Flora Greysteel
It's no secret we're somewhat inspired by The Dresden Dolls. AFP's 2nd solo studio album is full of glitz, synths and songs you want to dance madly around your attic to while sobbing your heart out. Flora Greysteel
Dreamy, intimate experimental pop, part of the artist's challenge to herself to write and record a song every single day of the year. Bandcamp New & Notable Nov 22, 2017